What Are You Really Selling? (Hint: It’s Not Just Your Product)
- Sarah Varner
- Jul 31
- 2 min read
You’re not selling a course. Or software. Or booth space. Or coaching.
At least, not just those things.
You’re selling peace of mind. Permission. Identity. Belonging. Relief. Possibility. Confidence. Transformation.
We don’t buy things for the sake of owning them. We buy to solve a problem, feel a certain way, or move closer to who we want to be.
But here’s the catch: most businesses only talk about the thing itself. The features. The process. The specs. Which means they’re missing the entire reason someone would say “yes.”
Let’s fix that!

Why This Matters
If your website, pitch, or packaging is focused on the what, your message can fall flat. It might be technically accurate, but it won’t connect.
When you clarify the why it matters—the real reason someone is buying—your messaging gets sharper, stickier, and a whole lot more persuasive.
A Few Real-World Examples
You’re not selling booth space.
You’re selling access to buyers, decision-makers, and conversations that don’t happen anywhere else.
You’re not selling event passes.
You’re selling perspective. A chance to learn what’s new, connect with peers, and leave re-energized about the work you do.
You’re not selling a membership.
You’re selling connection. Advocacy. A way to be part of something bigger than your own business.
You’re not selling analytics software.
You’re selling sharper decisions, less guesswork, and the power to prove what’s working.
You’re not selling accounting services.
You’re selling financial clarity and the calm that comes from knowing someone’s watching the numbers.
You’re not selling fractional marketing.
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You’re selling traction. Strategic progress, faster execution, and a partner who actually gets it.
Want to Find the “Real” Thing You’re Selling?
That’s what I help uncover.
If you find yourself oversimplifying, second-guessing, or watching people’s eyes glaze over when you talk about what you do—it might be time for a messaging tune-up. I’ll help you find the words that actually connect.
Let’s find the words that work.